Community Standards

What is expected, and what gets you removed.

Version 2026-09-13.2, effective 2026-09-04.

Removed immediately, on confirmation

Sexual conduct, sexual services, or soliciting either — including suggestion, negotiation, or implication, before, during, or after a session.

Involving anyone under 18 in any way, including bringing a child to a session or depicting one in a photograph.

Weapons, illegal drugs, or attending a session intoxicated.

Threats, violence, coercion, or stalking.

Session in a private residence, hotel room, vehicle, or any isolated place instead of the booked public venue.

Graduated enforcement

No physical contact without consent. The default is none beyond a greeting the other person starts.

No harassment or discrimination, including after the booking ends and including attempts to reach someone off the platform.

No off-platform payment. Both people are addressed, because this is usually mutual.

No promises of friendship, romance, employment, investment returns, immigration help, or professional outcomes.

No professional advice — medical, legal, financial, psychological, or immigration.

No impersonation or misleading identity presentation, including AI-generated likenesses.

Show up, or cancel honestly. Repeated late cancellations and no-shows carry consequences.

Boundaries are part of the booking

A host's stated boundaries and session preferences are binding terms of that booking, not suggestions.

Reviews

Reviews may describe punctuality, communication, respectfulness, accuracy of the profile, and whether the venue and activity were kept to.

Reviews may not comment on appearance, or on race, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, or any other protected characteristic. Such text is rejected when you submit it.